Episodes

Nov. 24, 2021

Why do we Overlook the Dysfunction? [Ep. 697]

Since we were children, out of simple preservation, we overlooked and pretended the dysfunction did not exist with regards to our family. Throughout our lives, we still do that, we overlook dysfunction in our lives, our friends, and our family....
Nov. 1, 2021

In a Relationship where You have to Prove your Value? [Ep.696]

Are you currently in a relationship, romantic, friendship, or marriage where you are constantly having to prove your value, your innocence, or truth? Are you experiencing sadness and depression and don't know why this is happening? Have you recognized...
Oct. 30, 2021

Common Mistakes Made when Dating after a Toxic Relationship. [Ep.695]

In today's live show Ashley will be exploring and explaining the common mistakes made when dating after a toxic relationship that creates more dead-end relationships that go no where. Ashley reveals the specifics to changing the old programming and...
Oct. 11, 2021

Is it Optimism or Toxic Positivity? [Ep.694]

In today's live show Ashley will be exploring and explaining positivity and at what point it turns toxic. Many of us are optimistic and try to find the silver lining no matter what, however their are those times that pain, suffering, and turmoil are...
Oct. 6, 2021

The Psychological Games People Play [Ep.693]

In today's live show Ashley will be exploring and explaining some tactics and games people use to manipulate and control others. These games are highly effective and can create sadness, confusion, frustration, and resentment. The more you understand...
Sept. 7, 2021

Perfectionism and Procrastination [Ep.691]

Do you identify yourself as a perfectionist? Do you find yourself stuck sometimes unable to finish or even start a project? Do you wonder how all of this began? Are you looking for some solutions to help offset perfectionism and help you to achieve...
Sept. 1, 2021

Stop Walking on EggShells with Randi Kreger [Ep.690]

On today's live radio show, Live Your True Life Perspectives, I'm discussing the parent child dynamic when it comes to raising a child with signs and symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder. We will be discussing the signs and symptoms, what to...
Aug. 25, 2021

What Happens to Relationships with No Boundaries? [Ep.689]

Creating and being consistent with boundaries in our relationships is vitally important to the health of all relationships, but can be extremely challenging to implement. Many of us find ourselves in long-term relationships that have no boundaries. We...
Aug. 17, 2021

Life After a Toxic Relationship [Ep.688]

Exiting a toxic relationship is challenging to say the least. Our mind makes us question ourselves, the relationship, and if we will ever find a good person to be in a relationship with, or if we're destined to live on our own for the rest of our...
Aug. 10, 2021

Ghosting: How to Safeguard Yourself Before and After [Ep.687]

Many of you have heard about ghosting and many of us may have been ghosted recently. When someone ghosts you, you are left with unanswered questions, sadness, and a feeling of emptiness. We wonder what we could have done differently, did we say...
Aug. 4, 2021

You are the Light with Muz Murray [Ep.686]

Muz Murray is joining me on Live Your True Life Perspectives today at 1pm CST. Muz is discussing his latest book, You are the Light: Secrets of the Sages Made Simple. I'm delighted to have him on the show, his wisdom and profound sense of clarity will...
July 27, 2021

The Race of Your Life [Ep.685]

Author of The Race, Lindsay Reiling - Author joins Live Your True Life Perspectives and Ashley Berges to discuss her latest best-selling book. 100% of the proceeds through the sale of "THE RACE" will be donated to The British Columbia Children's...
July 17, 2021

Finding the Rainbow After the Loss of an Infant [Ep. 684]

We need support systems, we need guidance and understanding especially in crisis situations. The loss of an infant is overwhelming, difficult to process, and even more difficult to explain to the rest of the family including young children. Je'Nai...
July 13, 2021

Safeguard Yourself from Narcissistic Abuse [Ep. 683]

On today's show, I am discussing narcissistic abuse, the signs of it, the way it can make you feel, and ways to identify someone walking over your boundaries without always needing to know all signs of NPD. Our best defense is knowing ourselves and...
July 3, 2021

Free and Independent You [Ep.682]

Much like how the United States received its freedom from the British, each and everyone of us go through a rebirth process that leads to freedom. Much like the phoenix, we recreate ourselves, battling inner and outer battles, working to ultimately...
June 26, 2021

What are You Thinking About? [Ep.681]

What do you spend your time thinking about and what you spend your time doing? Let's analyze our use of time & what we spend our time focused on. Often times, we don't realize how much energy we use thinking about certain things in our life. In order...
June 19, 2021

Compliment or Insult: How to Protect Yourself [Ep.680]

Whether someone is paying you a compliment or giving you a backhanded insult, how do you protect yourself and see the situation clearly. On today's show I am addressing ways you can dissect the compliment and insult and to be sure that you are...
June 12, 2021

When did the Marriage become a Roommate Situation? [Ep.679]

Marriages can be wonderful integrations of two people coming together to create a home, a family, and a future. However, marriages can shift and augment into something different. As we know, people grow, change, and learn as we get wiser and sometimes...
June 5, 2021

What is a Core Wound [Ep. 678]

Many of us are not aware that we are dealing with one or more core wounds on a daily basis. We don't realize the impact it has on our life and how we make decisions, enter into relationships, and make decisions based on them. On today's show in a...
June 1, 2021

Is this Codependency or Unconditional Love? [Ep. 677]

More often than not, we can mistake codependency for unconditional love. When we don't know the difference we're unable to understand ourselves and our relationships with clarity. In today's show, I will identity signs of codependency and signs of...
May 22, 2021

What is Living IOU? [Ep. 676]

I'm meeting with Dr. Joe Famularo, author of the new book: IOU Life Leadership. You owe it to yourself and others! We will be discussing what is IOU Living, how to be a leader in our own life, the inward and outward anchors we need, and the three life...
May 22, 2021

Am I Dealing with a Narcissist? [Ep. 675]

Often when we interact with a narcissist, we aren't aware. We don't realize the signs of narcissism when we are interacting with a friend, family member, or significant other. In these relationships we can feel taken advantage, not thought about, and...
May 8, 2021

What is a Trauma Bond? [Ep. 674]

Am I experiencing a trauma bond? In today's show we are exploring trauma bonds, what they are, the signs of a trauma bond, and why we get into them in the first place. Trauma bonds are extremely addictive and challenging to break away from and move on...
May 1, 2021

Moving Affects Kids Too! [Ep. 673]

Moving homes, changing communities, and leaving behind our friends affects us all in different ways. Marla Huehmer author of "The Big Move" joins Ashley Berges on Live Your True Life Perspectives. Marla is a school psychologist and creator of...